http://www.one.org html PUBLIC "-//W3C//DTD XHTML 1.0 Strict//EN" "http://www.w3.org/TR/xhtml1/DTD/xhtml1-strict.dtd"> Act as if what you do makes a difference. It does.: April 2005

If A is success in life, then A equals x plus y plus z. Work is x; y is play; and z is keeping your mouth shut. - ALBERT EINSTEN

Friday, April 29, 2005

THE SONG OF THE SEMESTER AND BRAZILIAN MUSICIANS

The hit of my brazilian stay ... THE SONG TITLED VERDADE (truth)

Abstract of the chorus below, and to this add the brazilian sexy- ness and romaticism of music, maaaaan you feel like just like LOVING, LOVING, LOVING and DANCING, DANCING, DANCING and DREAMING, DREAMING, DREAMING!

I discovered that I love you so much,
I discovered that you are my peace
I discovered by accident/unintentionally life
that is true ...

(portuguese)

I suggest you the version that sing together Caetano Veloso, Gilberto Gil (who is btw the brazilian minister of culture, is not that beautiful?) and Daniela Mercuri, although Zeca Pagodinho also sings it very cool!

descubri que te amo demais
descubri em vc minha paz
descubri sem querer a vida
verdade

Pra ganhar teu amor fiz mandinga
Fui a jinga dum bom capoeira
e na espera da sua emoção
com o seu coração fiz joeira

fui a beira dum rio e vc
uma ceia com pão vinho e flor
uma luz pra guiar sua estrada
a entrega perfeita do amor
verdade

como negar essa linda emoção
que tanto bem fez pro meu coração
a minha paixão adormecidameu amor,
meu amor incendeia
nossa cama parece uma teia
teu olhar uma luz que clareia
meu caminho tal qual,
lua cheiaeu nem posso pensar te perderai de mim esse
amor terminar
sem voce minha felicidade morreria de tanto penar
verdade


And ok, might it be the momento to talk about all this wonderful brazilian singers, to be very honest, it was so hard to pick the song of the semester (actually, why to pick one song, I do not know, I am just to random!)


Gilberto Gil: How cool is to have such a top singer as a minister of culture? Posted by Hello


Daniela Mercury Posted by Hello


Caetano Veloso: the poet, if this guy loves as he sings, he is the best lover ever Posted by Hello
Also if you have no clue who he is, if you saw the Almodovar movie HABLE CON ELLA, he is the one that sings "Cucurucu Palomaaaaa" ... you shall also donwload this song, it brilliant!

IVETE SANGALO, she rocks! she is my idol! she is so good looking and I truly wanna look like her when I have the age this woman has (yeah, I want, soem women after 35 just forget about how important it is to feel beautiful)!!


IVETE: you simply rock, she is for me, a typical brazilian. Posted by Hello

In general, I really appreaciate Brazilian Music; it has put so much color to my stay here, has brought to me this constant wish to sing and move my body even if I am seated, and this wonderful feeling that whatever happens, things can only get better!

Perceptions

MelT (Melanie) asked on her blog recently:

"Tell me about racism towards (not necessarily against) Asians and Blacks in London, Dublin, Austria and Brazil..."

I felt like sharing some personal perceptions, about Austria (where I lived on year from June 2003 to July 2004) and Brazil:

http://www.blogger.com/publish-comment.do?blogID=8693421&postID=111478081244359893&r=ok

However ... is that really so? Always when I think back in the experiences I made, even if they were so real and intense, I am so skeptical if they really show reality. It is a big responsibility, when you share your perception, you tend to influence (and sometimes) change other ´s perception, and same happenes to you, when you hear stuff about someone else ´ s. Specially being Colombian, a country that is "the best kept secret in the world" and that due to personal (negative) perceptions is consiously and unconsiously bad promoted in the world - I feel quite touched about how far perceptions can go. Well, this posting is not about Colombia, also because stuf there is getting better and more and more people are destroying paradigms!!! (see! I am being subjective, now?)

Tuesday, April 26, 2005

YOUR ANSWERS ARE WELCOME

I am doing a small survey, opinions sharing on the following issue for our branded development traineeships program, Explora. If you feel like answering, specially if you really think on doing a traineeship in latinamerica (or wherever) at some point, ur comments are more than welcome!


What do you look for when you look for a social traineeship in Latin América?

a. Basically, just experiencing the Latin American culture
b. Increase my practical and theoretical knowledge on social entrepreneurship, since I am highly interested in that topic
c. Increase my personal network and create contacts with people related to the social sector
d. Find a meaningful way of spending my summer
e. Learn Spanish/Portuguese
f. Others?

Is the matching (time between the moment you send your acceptance and the moment you get the confirmation that you are accepted) time important for you?

Yes
No

Do you feel comfortable with the concept of self-funding the NGO you will be being a trainee, by covering the administrative costs that allow this NGO to be part of the AIESEC program?

If yes, why?
If no, why?

How would you describe your dream social traineeship?
Would the fact of having an official mentor and mentoring process during your traineeship interest you?

Monday, April 25, 2005

WET AND WILD

Last saturday Johanna, David and me went to WET AND WILD, to enjoy maybe one of the last sunny days in Sao Paulo - it is turning into winter now.

Entrance is 32 reais (like 10 Euro), but food inside is expensive and not that good :) It is very good built and all, and for moments you felt like being in the "future" - with no natural beaches, lagoons or cascades, no sand, no "green", but all artificial.


The fake sea Posted by Hello

Also in Colombia I have never been to such a park, and it was also kind of strange that in a beach country as Brazil, such a park would have market. Or maybe that´s why - for the crazyness of brazilians to be close to water and sun, even if it´s artificial.

It was cool, it has many attractions, all just for the 10 Euro, Lazi River, tones of high slides, waves lagoons... for kids, it simply the best. And I guess for adults as well!

ONE OF THESE DAYS

Today is one of these typical days, when I have only 10 reais in my pocket (10 reais, brazilian money, that in colombian pesos would be around 8000 and in USD around 2,50 - 3,00) - and therefore a deep prioritization exercise took place. And it is monday ...

And if I have these 10 reais is because the night before I borrow them from Johanna, then practically I have been out of money the wole last week. This is such a typical situation by that time of the month:

- My salary is being still transferred
- The weekend, all your friends had money, so even if you were bankrupt, you can not even save money, and be sustainable staying home, cause your friends are there to remind you "cool plans to do" and you just cannot use "I have no money" as an excuse, cause of course they are there to borrow you money. Wonderful. Without a real in my pocket and with all the intentions of saving money, in the weekend I suddenly spent around 60.

So this morning started a deep thinking process, about how should I maximize them, until the day that I get paid (hopefully tomorrow???).

FACTS:

Fridge is EMPTY. Last two eggs, were eaten as breakfast. Well, at least my part of the fridge is empty, since (and this is also so typical) the night before my flat mate mom came as Santa Claus and filled the fridge with jummy, frozen food, that she should eat during the week (lasagnas, risottos, yakisoba, pastas, etc). You have no clue how jelous I feel!

I need from the 10 reais to keep at least 2,10 for the metro ticket, taht will bring me to the place where I will pick up my salary.

STRATEGY:

Go to the supermarket and try to buy 7,90 reais in food, in as much food to survive to the worst scenario, that would be that I do not get money tomorrow. Hungry, or better said, STARVING I went to the supermarket. That is of course the worst thing you can do, go shopping when you are hungry and HAVE no money for quality food. I spent 1 HOUR inside the supermarket, to buy:

  • 1 liter milk - 1,37
  • 1 tuna fish can - 2,35
  • 1 tomato sauce can - 1,45
  • 3 onions - 0,62
  • 1/2 dozen eggs - 1,35
  • 1 instant macarroni - 0,70
  • 1 0,200 Kg pinaple cake fresh CAKE - 1,60

TOTAL - 9,44

I knew it ! I forgot to save the 2,10 for the metro.

It was more than funny. I changed the content of my car (that was the bets part, such a big car with 5 -6 products) like 10 times, just looking for bargains or looking for the best formula. The supermarket guys were looking at me in the "you random striker" way. Pinaple cake? Looks like a luxus article for such a poor budget, but I just could not help, looked too good. Am human.

I took some rice from my flat mate (I had too, sorry!) made a good tuna rice that should LAST FOR THE WHOLE DAY (in Colombia Tuna is the typical ingredient for low budget food), acompanied with cake and some hot chocolate at some point at night (yeah! I still had chocolate). Eggs shall be fine for a TORTILLA with the remainign onions, tomorrow and the macarroni for lunch. AT THAT POINT I hope to have more money.

As far for the piles of dirty clothes that is waiting to be washed - sorry, keep waiting, cannot prioritize to buy any soap. SO I will keep using also random clothes, yeah! those that are still clean, cause I never use. Hope I do not get any external appointment in the next days.

Dejavuuuuu ... I feel like being back in the times of Colombian MC. Slighty diference, is that salary here is on the way and secured, there, we just had hopes :) - Vivi, elected MCP told me recently things have drastically changed, and I AM SO GLAD to hear.

DISCLAIMER: MOM, GRADMOTHER - if someone translated this posting to you, NO I am not losing weight, I am not sick, and THIS IS JUST TEMPORARY, ok? I just felt like writing this posting to laugh about myself in the future, since this is certainly not the first time such a day happens :)

Friday, April 22, 2005

Kinder Ueberraschung

(sorry, I feel like writting this posting in german!)

Was soll das Bild?
Das ist echt der Hammer!

Das bloede Bild hat mich an Oesterreich erinnert, Gott ... wie viel hab ich damals zugenommen! na ja ... eigentlich habe ich nicht zu viele Kinder Ueberraschung gegessen, aber die Levri hat manchmal Milchschnitte gekauft! Die waren gut!

Kaisersaemmeln vom Anker ...
Brot mit Wurst vom Anker ... (besonders die im Angebot)
Billige Wiener von CLEVER ...
Kuchen vom Anker (die billige vom 2 Euro - Apfel)
Kartoffel mit Sauerrahm ... (I vermisse das so sehr!!!! ich kann hier kein Rahm und keine gute Krauter finden!)
OLIVEN PESTO (hier ist es schweine teuer!)
Tomaten mit Mozarella (hier kann ich nicht "diese" koestliche weisse weiche Mozarella finden!)
BASILICO (hier ist auch so teuer!)
KEBAB!!! (mini Kebab, vom Ullis Kebab, 1,50 Euro)

und bitte ...

Leberkaese!!!! (vom 1,25 zu 1,60 Euro max)


What kind of degradation is that?  Posted by Hello

Thursday, April 21, 2005


This is the website of EL TIEMPO Posted by Hello

"La barranquillera Oriana Torres se perfila como una lider internacional"




MOM, I AM FAMOUS!

Today was published a profile of mine in the online version of the most important colombian newspaper EL TIEMPO

All this, thanks to AIESEC in Colombia (Vladi) that with other real relevant news about the country, informed these guys that I was selected for AI.

To go directly to the profile click here (spanish) - then from the main page of EL TIEMPO, you have to do several clicks to finally reach the article. The title is:

"La barranquillera Oriana Torres se perfila como una lider internacional"

That means: "The barranquillera Oriana Torres profiles herself as an international leader" (or something like that - btw, barranquillera means someone from Barranquilla, and Barranquilla is my home city in Colombia)

Funny, funny!




Wednesday, April 20, 2005

BRAZIL - still a lot to discover

Well, since this is a NOMADlife community, and we are supossed to share our NOMADic experiences, I will talk about Brazil again. I think lately I have been focusing more on the LIFE side (of Nomadlife) in my blog, which in my case can go way too random. [But who cares! the life part is the one that gives meaning and sense to any NOMAD stuff you do: no life no nomad.]

In less than one month my Brazilian experience will be over and although I definitively feel very exited of coming back home to Colombia (at least for some weeks), I wish I could have more time to enjoy Brazil, this is for sure a country that deserves much more time.


Ready? Posted by Hello

Coming back to the postings I wrote at the beginning of my stay here ...


... today reading them back I feel sort of strange. Why?

Because what amazed me by that time, now makes completely part of my life (except the kissing rules!!) - and this is very easy to happen being a Latin girl, coming from Colombia, there are moments where you here in Brazil would say "you are experiencing cero cultural shock". Is that good? Is that bad? Does it make it less exiting? Is that true? Actually not, cause in the end you know that there are still differences (must be) and you keep searching every day for them. It makes you go deeper.

Another thing is that when you arrive to a country you start like hell writing about your experiences (you know the first weeks exitement!) and you mad mistakes around the things you describe and how you describe. I just think back of me when I lived in Austria ... man I lived in a 365 days Cultural schock, and "liked" to reinforce paradigms and write about it.

In the following posts I will exactly talk about this. About my own Brazilian paradigms.


PARADIGM 1: In BRAZIL races and cultures are fully integrated, anyone can be brazilian


Afrobrazil finds each day its way to be part of the country Posted by Hello

Disclaimer: The following I discovered in a museum (Afro-Brazilian Museum) tour with guidance provided by a professional sociologist of the state of Sao Paulo

Brazil is still fighting to get rid of social and racial apartheid. It still exists.
In the past "Branqueamiento" (whitening), was a law
The kings of the Atlantic slave trade were the portuguese
Story of Brazil started in the state of BAHIA
Mulatos, Mestizos still are searching for their own identity as brazilians
In shops, commercial centers any of the workers is afro-brazilian
In some shops/places afro-brazilians are not welcomed
Less than 1 % of top executives of brazilian companies are afro - brazilians

Cool articles about all this are:

The Other 500 Years: Brazil and 500 Years of Indigenous, Black and Popular Resistance and
Social Apartheid in Brazil


PARADIGM 2: BRAZIL, the country of carnival, fun, beaches, enjoying the moment ...



Business Mindset in Brazil - one of the strongest I have seen Posted by Hello

Brazil is still the country of carnival, and fun. But at the same time I have never seen a country with such a strong business mindset, specially in young people. People here strive as hell for career, career planing, for productivity and for doing bunchs of money. They take it serious. They are very organized and workoholic. Even in unemployeement is an issue, in comparison with other Latin countries, it is not here - specially for recent graduates. It is relatively easy to get a placement in a company, at least at trainee as a starting point, as well it is easy to do your practice semester of university in "very good" companies. It al sounds so corporate, but believe me, at the same time, SOCIAL and in general CSR agendas are ON. Well this is just the reflect of the emerging economy they are. Brazil has a lot to teach to the rest of Latin America.


PARADIGM 3: BRAZIL government - as any other latin government- is a nightmare



President Lula Posted by Hello


Many people, young ones also, are "Lulistas" (from president Lula). With this I do not affirm that government here is perfect, but at least you feel the difference with other latin States where citizens BITCH the whole day about the government. There is a decent amount of advertisement around the "good things" the government is doing. This - in my opinio - really creates a good atmosphere: people see what is changing, people know more about the own country and "trust the process" (as we say in AIESEC). Lately I was having a conversation with a brazilian friend, and she told me that Lula was seen as a "bad president" by some people since they shamed him of "just doing what his consultants said", that he was not intelligent at all - what a stupid comment I thought! Is not this the role of a president, to get surrounded by the best people?


PARADIGM 4: If you do not have a car in Sao Paulo, you can´t live there


There are bus conections to everywhere, you just need to get informed Posted by Hello

Please of course you can live without a car, but of course a car makes your life easier. Sao paulo is a monster, but from own experience, I have reached places by bus (or omnibus as they call them there) and by metro, of course, that I never thought I could. Call 156 - there you just say where you are, where you want to go, and in seconds they give you the conections you have to take, and how much it takes. And they are friendly - something that does not happen in this kind of phone services (in Colombia, at least). Well, in general may people have a car, cars are cheaper in comparison with other countries - and specially credit conditions (interest rates) here are so low, that you easily can buy a car.

Now that I am talking about "buses" I also can say that buses here are very nice, very comfortable, NO MUSIC in the buses (as in Colombia that all buses have a LOUD Vallenato!), No RANDOM stickers, furnitures and lights in the buses (as in Colombia) - buses here are very corporate. Bus driver wears a suit, or at least uniform and the bus driver does not collect the money, there is a second person, sitting in themiddle of the bus, that collect the payment from people - this in the cases where you do not have a card or a ticket in advance. Usually when you work, the company gives this cards to you. Similar as in Europe (that I love), buses stop only in the bus stops and you kindly ask for it by pressing a buttom. Hehehe I miss the "PROXIMAAAAA!!!!" that we scream in Colombia to get out of the bus, and the "bitching" to the bus driver cause even if we scream, he leaves you wherever he feels like.


PARADIGM 5: Brazilians = Latinos



Brazil - latinos or not? Posted by Hello

It is so funny when I hear brazilians calling "latinos" to the rest of people of Latin America. They DO NOT do it in a bad way, not at all, but it´s just funny since when they talk, it seems like they would not fall into the "latino branch". But atthe same time, SO MANY PEOPLE here speak spanish! many! and the funny thing is also that they d it with a strong "argentinean acent"- many of them learnt there, in official courses, or just during any of their holidays. It´s very sweet hearing brazilians talking spanish, sounds "like little kids". Brazilians like "latinos", a lot!, but as said, they see us as a different branch. Maybe we also see Brazilians different? well I do, I see them as a exotic, different but still very american part of us!

Monday, April 18, 2005

What else is love?

... but understanding and rejoicing in the fact that another person lives, acts, and experiences otherwise than we do ?

Friedrich Nietzsche

Today I celebrated 5 years of learning, happiness and complicity together with the man I most love on this earth. This posting is to you.

Regional Positions in AIESEC - they are the ones!

Wow! 4 days without posting in my weblog. Gaudhy (my former room mate) and actually many other people shall be proud of me. He! I feel like an addict trying to leave her addiction.

Now, coming back to business! As many of you might know, but specially after the "2004 2005 period sucess!" (period that has not still finished by the way), AIESEC is sort of having regional boards. Regional Boards composed by people that work on regional positions. For oldies in AIESEC that is something new ... or not that new actually, cause talking with an Alumni of the old called "Americas region" (today called Spanish Speaking Growth Network, at least the Latin part of the Americas) he told me that this kind of regional spots existed in the past.

ONE YEAR AGO, I got the spam where it was told that I was selected to be the first (in the new age at least) SSGN Coordinator, first full time regional position in the history of SSGN. Weeks after Veronica joined me as ER Coordinator.

Same history in other GNs. Our dear Mike (my fellow director for the next term in AI) is the (central and eastern europe) is currently CEE project manager. And next term his board also got bigger, selecting also an ER coordinator. Same in WENA (western europe and north america) even if not called board, had people working at regional level, for instance Hanna, as chair. As you see, this year no names of positions and stuff was standard, but people were there DOING WHAT THEY HAD TO DO: connecting on the ground global and regional strategies, providing the coordination that anybody could give before, raising money and making it again available for countries. In SSGN at least the return on investment was awsome.

All this beautiful story, however had some challenges. Many were the discussions around at the beginning if such positions should exist. Many people were against arguing that it was just a paradigm to think "that problems would be solved just adding people", and that this would just add a fake hierarchy to the organization. Valid risks, if we manage to express them properly. However I truly trust in the strategy, not only as current regional person, but as future director in charge of leading the next SSGN board.

And yes! we have a bunch of elected people for GN Boards next term!

First MY BABIES, for SSGN Board:

Rita Baptista originally from Portugal, MCVP ExternalRelations of AIESEC in Brazil is our new SSGN External Relations Coordinator!

Johanna Garcia originally from Colombia, MCVP Exchange ofAIESEC in Brazil is our new SSGN Explora Coordinator!

FOR CEE:

Diana Gaftea - CEE ER Coordinator 05/06

Maciej Dakowicz - CEE Project Manager 05/06

FOR WENA:

Conference Manager for WENA 2005-06
Caroline of Switzerland! (MCP 2003-05, Switzerland) caroline.gertsch@aiesec.ch

Project Manager for WENA 2005-06
Mate of Austria!(MCVP of Austria 2004-05) AND THIS IS A GOOD ONE! Mate you rock! Mate was my sucesor in the Austrian MC last year!!!!

As for the other GNs, Africa and AP, for sure news are coming soon!


WE HUNTED FOR SURE THE BEST TALENT!

Friday, April 15, 2005

GOD BLESS PABLO MILANES

for making me dream about love and life with its lyrics ...

Si ella me faltara alguna vez
Nadie me podria acompañar
Nadie ocuparia ese lugar, que descubro en cada amanecer
Si me faltara alguna vez
Si ella me dejara de querer, cuando la contemplo al despertar
Siento la pureza que me da, nunca la podre corresponder
Si me dejara de querer
Si ella se olvidara de cantar, ese hermoso mundo que me da
¿Como volveria a predicar?
Si fue su palabra libertad, si se olvidara de cantar
Si ella no inundara esta ciudad
Todo cambiaria de color,
Gozaria de otra claridad, cuando miro y pienso con dolor,
Si no inundara esta ciudad
Si ella me faltara alguna vez,
Si ella me dejara de querer,
Si ella se olvidara de cantar,
Si ella no inundara esta ciudad
Yo escribiria esta cancion.

Wednesday, April 13, 2005

http://www.whereareyou.net/

Seems like many AIESEC people also are having blogs there !
Maybe is quite old, but I just discovered it some days ago ...

Englishwww.WhereAreYou.net
Deutschwww.WoBistDuJetzt.com
Españolwww.DondeEstas.org
Francaiswww.OuEsTu.com
Italianowww.DoveSei.org
Norskwww.HvorErDu.Nu
Danskwww.HvorErDu.Net
Nederlandswww.waarbenjij.nu
Sumoiwww.MissaOlet.com
Chinesewww.NizaiNaLi.com



Pregnancy ... Posted by Hello

DO YOU AGREE WITH STERILIZATION to combat poverty?


This morning I was reading EL TIEMPO, colombian newspaper, where I also sometimes enjoy to join the duscussion forums they have. Some days they really have bad questions to discuss about, some other days even funny or radical ones.

Today´s question was: Would you agree with sterilization as a way to combat poverty as the major of Cucuta (a city in Colombia) is proposing? In spanish: ¿Está de acuerdo con la esterilización para reducir la pobreza como lo propuso el alcalde de Cúcuta?

185 comments have been received so far. Couple of them completely random, of course. Some people got really emotional.


First set of positions:

"me parece insolito que se haga este tipo de practica cada mujer tiene derecho de criar y tener sus hijos independiente a su medio ambiente como la pobreza el gobierno tiene la responsabilidad de dar estabilidad y beneficio a sus ciudadanos" Translation: It´s really insolit if we we start doing this type of practice (sterilization) to each women, they hay the right to have the children they want no matter what environment she lives in. It´s responsibility of the government to give stability and benefits to the citizens"

That was quite funny for me:

1. Who said that are the WOMEN the only ones that are suggested to have sterilization? I mean, it´s quite impressive to see how many people just answered from the women perspective, when come! the ones that are spreading kids everywhere are the men (that meet stupid grils, of course!)

Second set of positions:

"Estoy completamente de acuerdo ya que muchas personas no tienen el dinero suficiente para comprar mensualmente´píldoras, ovulos, condones, etc y algunos de ellos son muy costosos para gente de pocos recursos. Además ninguno es 100% efectivo, mientras que los medios quirúrgicos son más confiables y definitivos para personas que ya tienen varios hijos. Definitivamente es la mejor solución para la pobreza y sobrepoblación" Translation: "I totally agree, many people just do not have the sufficient money to buy the pills, condoms ... some of them are very expensive for poor people. Besides that, any of them are 100 % effective, while the surgery os more trustworthy and definitive for people that already have kids. Definitively is the best solution for poverty and overpopulation"

That´s also interesting:

1. The discussion is NOT about effectiveness of contraceptive methods. So, please, let´s stop saying that it´s better to go for sterilization, cause it´s the safest way.
2. That they are expensive - TRUE, no issues with that. However, it´s a fact the before the people think they are or can be expensive, they need to find out that they actually EXIST and that it completely FINE to use them.

Third set of positions: THE CHURCH

"como miembro de la iglesia no estoy de acuerdo con esto porque va en contravía de la dignidad de las personas" Translation: As a member of the church I do not agree with this since it goes against the dignity of the people"

Wow, wow, wow! What is dignity? Die of hunger? The need of going out to do crime to get a plate of food? No comments from my side.

I won´t go ahead, you can join the discussion if you wanna have some fun (being a serious topic) reading some emotional comments of people, words like NAZI, facismus, "ask the major to sterilize his wife", "great fro these stupid 13 year old girls that are jumping from man to man" ...

I THINK:

1. NO EDUCATIONAL CAMPAIGNS - NO STERILIZATION: we only are causing an impact, if people understand inside an educational counselling program, why actually sterilization might be an intelligent option and how it can affect their future lifes.
2. STERILIZATION SHOULD BE AN OPTION ACTIVELY OFFERED, but not mandatory or compulsory, and it should be especially promoted in high risk segments, being these families with more than 2 kids and in extreme poverty
3. SHOULD BE APPLIED, IF DECIDED, NOT ONLY FOR WOMEN, also TO MEN.


Remember, soon we will celebrating MOTHER´s DAY :) Posted by Hello

Tuesday, April 12, 2005

SEND HIM TO HELL!

SEND HIM TO HELL!

This is what I have been willing to say to the lady that lives one floor over my appartment here in Sao Paulo. It´s incredible man, since I live here, I (or we) have been witnesses of how much this woman suffers thanks to the husband.

They are married, have one girl that must be like 10 - 12 years old.
They fight every night and what brakes my heart, is how she cries, how she suffers and how she asks kind of questions like: "why do you do this to me? what have I done wrong to get this from you?" I mean ... this really hurts my woman dignity. She suffers, but atthe same time she is really aggresive, violent, you hardly can´t sleep when they fight.

He has another woman, of course ... that´s the issue. I am not assuming it, I heard very clear all the conversations from my room. And the M***#@# does not even defend himself, his attitude is like "yeah, let me in peace, shut up ...", ah???!!!

I mean, they can be married, but if love is gone ... what to fight for?
If she is not the woman that he dreams of, that he would die for ... why to still be there? What does she expect, if it has been more than 6 months in the same situation? Is it not enough indicator for her to see that she just needs to move forward? Do they think in the child?

Some things I will never understand ...
I just ask God to give me wisedom (and PANTS!) to never, never in my life be as blind as this woman is ...

From some experiences with friends and relatives, it´s really hard to start a divorce, it´s really hard to let someone go, but many times, also for financial reasons ... how sad, but fine! what is more important YOU, YOUR DIGNITY, YOUR SELF STEAM, than just the willingness to stay in a comfort zone, or the fear and lack of courage to start a life alone?

Some things I will never understand ... Latino Women, in many things, we really have a lot to learn from europeans ...

SEND HIM FINALLY TO HELL! AAND GET A BETTER ONE!

Monday, April 11, 2005

AND IN THE END IT TURNED INTO A FANTASTIC WEEKEND

On Thursday the weekend promised to be one of the most boring ones I have ever had in Sao Paulo. I WAS JUST SICK, right after having my mentoring chat I started to have such a strong migrane, and it stayed so diring friday and part of saturday.

But as soon as I started to eat good, or better, things just improved. Well, being so sick the days before, I justs didn´t feel like buying stuff and cooking.

1. SATURDAY: I WANT TO EAT SEA FOOD! PUBLIC MARKET

On saturday, I then decided to go out and buy sea food. And specially mussels and shrimps. Yes, expensive, but who cares ? ... in the end of the month I see how I manage. Then Gaudhy (my room mate) suddenly was arriving from a crazy trainee party that took place last night and she decided to join me. Much fun and much better, since we splited the costs :) Seemed like a deal, I cook, she washes the dishes.

I must say, it was JUST DELICIOUS. And yes! boyfriend, Ulli, mother and whoever else still doubts of my cooking skills, I can cook!



Shrimps and Mussels with garlic done completely by ME! I feel so proud! Posted by Hello



Voila ...! Posted by Hello



Gaudhy and me enjoying the food! Posted by Hello




Gaudhy just doing her part! Posted by Hello


2. SATUDAY NIGHT: JUST BOHEMIA, MUSIC AND GREAT CONVERSATIONS

Even if not 100 % recovered to go out for hard core party (although we kind of tried to go out of the house calling the MC), I felt much better. Plan for the night? Beer. Well, you know alcohol is not the first thing that comes to my mind when thinking of fun, but living with gaughy, what else can we expect? I was so funny, calling to a Pizzeria to ask for beer and nothing to eat, but they brought it.

WE HAD ONE OF THE BEST CONVERSATIONS EVER ... I need to post on this at some point, but after this night, I can say I feel like doing a traineeship in Peru, living at APU (an awsome set of trainee hostals in Lima, Peru) and getting to know a couple of peruvian alumni that are just (after Gaudhy´s description) the best entrepreneurs ever. Cucha, Ivan, Bat, Alvaro, Naty (well, you I know!!), Ema ... I do not know you and you have no clue who I am, but after this weekend, I feel like I know you since years!


Bohemia Posted by Hello




My favourite chair Posted by Hello




She never gets drunk ... even if she drinks twice than me. Posted by Hello


3. SUNDAY: THE SAO PAULO TOURISTS



TOURIST KIT: Cap, Lonely Planet, Digital Camera, comfortable clothing (inlcuding AIESEC T-shirt) and bright smile ... Posted by Hello

Well, I am leaving Sao Paulo the 16th of May to go to Colombia for a couple of days and then to had for Rotterdam, for my AI year, and specially for crazy transition time during summer. I still have a couple of weekends in Brazil and thanks to Gaudhy (who is somehow a tourism and sighseeing freak) they are already completely BOOKED with Sao Paulo tourist stuff.

This weekend then we started with LIBERTADE, the japanese district in Sao Paulo (and the biggest japanese settelment in the world outside Japan) and with the IBIRAPUERA Park, one of the coolest grean spots in a JUNGLE OF CEMENT, that Sao Paulo is. Our friends ... the metro and the very good bus lines of the city of Sao Paulo, we were bit skeptical of finding the right connections, but in the end, it worked out perfectly. Only bit scary thing, was to find the right bus from Praça da Se (pure center of Sao Paulo) till Ibirapuera ... Parça da Se was at that time (3 pm) full of bit scary people, and lots of prostitutes (Gaudhy did not alow me to take some pics!) - but it was a nice experience, you have to experience all!


Metro Ticket - one simple ticket costs 2,10 reais (less than 1 dollar) - however in general transportation is not that cheap here. Posted by Hello


Metro Station Vila Madalena, the one in our district, green line. Posted by Hello

NEXT OF THE PICS YOU SEE WERE TAKEN IN LIBERTADE AND IBIRAPUERA. If one day you come to Sao Paulo, be sure you go there. Hey Gaudhy, thanks for the company :) Gaudhy is moving out of my room next saturday, since she is staying in Sao Paulo, she will move to a cheaper place, so this was also kind of our last weekend as ROOM MATES! Good thing, is that maybe like this, I will stop talking PERUVIAN, is so baaaaaaaad, if you here me now words like "Puta Madre!", "Pucha", "Chancho, chanchito", "Gordito", "Espeso", "Chivolo", "Polo" make part of my vocabulary!


Walking around Ibirapuera Park. As usual in Brazil, everybody kissing around in the park, and do not better get closer to hidden bushes and this kind of hidden places ... you might get surprises! Posted by Hello


AT night, in this same fountain, you can have light show, plus clasic music. That´s me. Posted by Hello


Ibirapuera Fountains Posted by Hello


Museu Afro Brasil, inside Ibirapuera Park. You can go in FOR FREE. You also get a guide person to tell you while you walk trough the museum all the history of Brazil - from the WHITE (portuguese) and from the BLACK perspective. Awsome. Good stuff Lula is doing, investing in culture and education. Posted by Hello


AT AFROBRASIL MUSEUM inside the Ibirapuera Park in Sao Paulo. Posted by Hello


Even MC Donalds was in japanese in Liberdade Posted by Hello


Viaduto, Cidade de Osaka (City of Osaka) in Liberdade, Sao Paulo Posted by Hello


Comparing Prices to look for a good spot to eat, good and cheap! Posted by Hello


ALL PLACES in Liberdade (shops, hotels, restaurants) had japanese translation or were just written in japanese Posted by Hello


RICE, RICE, RICE ... it was fun seeing all kind of rices, spices, brands ... Posted by Hello


Walking around Liberdade , Viaduto - Gaudhy and Oriana Posted by Hello


The place where we bought the food. They were giving free tries, so why not to buy there? I love when even if public markets they manage such basic marketing strategies! Posted by Hello


Gaushy also eating - we expected more meat on the japanese stuff!! Posted by Hello


Oriana is Finally eating! Posted by Hello


Hand crafts Posted by Hello


Japanese jummy stuff Posted by Hello


Japanese cookers! Posted by Hello


Liberdade, crowded of people willing to buy japanese food. I am the one with white pants :) Posted by Hello


In Liberdade, the japanese dictric, you get massages for 10 reais. Posted by Hello

My first Mentoring Session!

After being selected for AIESEC International I increased my (honest) efforts to start doing things that I have never done before, that I felt would enrich my preparation and therefore future performance in the team (and most important my capacity to live life!) and specially, things that I could share with the members and based on OWN experience, encourage them to do.

TO HAVE A MENTOR WAS ONE OF THESE THINGS. Always, when you talk about the AIESEC EXPERIENCE, AIESEC Experience Implementation and anything related to that, mentoring is one of these key elements. Abstract concept, that not may people tried, but that many people somehow trust, endorse, recommend ... Also a concept that in all trainings and simulations you just name on a theoretical level, and explain how difficult is to simulate it for training prouposes.

Well ... I managed then to find a mentor and we just started last week!

And not that this is an easy thing ... somehow you feel very strange:

1. indentifing a person that you feel you would trust and feel good while doing it and
2. asking this person if she/he would have the time and interest

I am really happy, and I so far guess I asked the right person. The lucky one :) is Matthew Neagle. Matt (originally from the US) was MCP of AIESEC in Panama for two years, Americas Region Chair (Americas Region was the former SSGN!) and in 2003 2004 AI Director also for the Spanish Speaking Growth Network. Matt still as director did my transition to my current position (SSGN Coordinator). He´s currently based in Poland, working on his own company, engaged in
solutions to help companies to engage and retain young talent and recent graduate hires.

It´s fun and very inviting so far to do this mentoring exercises.
And with Matt Neagle it is CONCRETE, REAL and DONW TO EARTH enough.
That´s what I like the most, the practical component I see so far.

You make things your way, you answer (and formulate!) your questions taking the time you need, even if mentoring sounds like teacher and student (for some people that know the word for the 1st time), it is a total self driven process. It feels rather to have a personal "facilitator" - to whom you tell what kind of session you want to have. If you are a crappy delegate, be sure your output will be crappy. And you are the one that lost time.

Keep you posted ...





Thursday, April 07, 2005

HAPPY ANIVERSARY TO BARRANQUILLA. MY HOME CITY IN COLOMBIA!!!

Brief Review of Barranquilla History, in spanish!

La venta de banderitas de Barranquilla en algunas esquinas de la ciudad, le recuerda al habitante en su transitar cotidiano que se avecina alguna conmemoración. Algunos, quizás, podrían pensar que se celebra el día de la fundación de una urbe por parte de conquistadores españoles, llegados con escribanos, pergaminos y pelucas. Pero la verdad es que no ha sido ese el caso de Barranquilla.

A mediados del siglo XIX surgieron las primeras inquietudes sobre los confusos orígenes de la ciudad, una de ellas de la pluma del abogado Domingo Malabet, quien con base en la memoria oral tradicional establece el año de 1629 como el de la fundación de Barranquilla por supuestos ganaderos de Galapa. Por tratarse de un mito hecho leyenda, la gente continuó repitiéndola una y otra vez, sin haberse encontrado evidencia documental alguna que le otorgara credibilidad a aquella supuesta versión.Ante la falta de una “partida de bautismo” que legitimase el nacimiento de nuestra ciudad, se comenzó a utilizar el decreto del gobernador del naciente Estado de Cartagena, don Manuel Rodríguez Torices, mediante el cual se elevó a Barranquilla de su condición de parroquia a la categoría de villa. Esto se hizo como un reconocimiento al entusiasmo que despertó entre sus habitantes la idea de independizarse de la madre patria. Según este decreto, nuestra ciudad conmemora 192 años de haber sido erigida villa. Durante la primera mitad del siglo XX, la ciudad se convirtió en el puerto más importante de Colombia, con un desarrollo comercial, urbanístico y cultural local sin precedentes.

Fue ese un momento en que sus habitantes sintieron la necesidad de conocer sus orígenes, prácticamente desconocidos. Gracias al apoyo del Banco Dugand, José Ramón Vergara y Fernando Baena publicaron en 1922 el primer libro de Historia de la ciudad: “Barranquilla su pasado y su presente”, que se convirtió en el único referente escrito sobre lo ocurrido en sus calles. Acerca de sus orígenes, los autores reprodujeron textos de Domingo Malabet, publicados en el periódico El Promotor en 1875. Quizás la carencia de estudios históricos ha llevado a varias personalidades, como los escritores García Márquez y Marvel Moreno, a afirmar que Barranquilla es una ciudad sin historia.La ciudad le debe a Carlos Angulo y José Agustín Blanco, haber desentrañado los orígenes de nuestra urbe. El primero, como arqueólogo, demostró que en el casco urbano vivían varios grupos indígenas, incluyendo un enorme cementerio en donde hoy se levanta el Parque Cultural del Caribe.

El historiador Blanco, después de casi 20 años de trabajo en los archivos de Bogotá, demostró que existió un pueblo de indios llamado Camacho, luego convertido en sitio de libres hasta que en el siglo XVII comenzó a poblarse de mestizos, mulatos y zambos, de manera espontánea, lo que, a su vez, motivó a Nicolás de Barros a construir una pequeña hacienda agropecuaria, la misma que fue luego reconocida como parroquia. En los últimos 20 años se han logrado grandes avances respecto al conocimiento de la ciudad, a través de numerosas publicaciones sobre su historia. Hoy la ciudad dispone de un Archivo Histórico, de departamentos de Historia en Uniatlántico y Uninorte, con sendos grupos de investigación reconocidos por Colciencias, revistas de divulgación, conferencias públicas en el Teatro Municipal y una asignatura sobre Historia de Barranquilla, desde hace diez años en la Universidad del Norte. Con todas estas fortalezas, la reflexión sobre la historia de Barranquilla puede y debe estar al nivel que exigen las circunstancias en que se encuentra la ciudad.

En las últimas décadas han ocurrido grandes cambios en ámbitos distintos de la vida del hombre del mundo occidental, y también en la forma como el género humano se piensa en el transcurrir del tiempo, lo que ha conducido a que el vocablo Historia, o Historia de Barranquilla, tenga hoy un significado muy distinto al que tuvo hasta hace poco tiempo. En nuestros días, cuando se habla de Historia, se refiere uno solamente a lo ocurrido, y no a lo que va a suceder. Nuestra ciudad ha padecido del abuso de la visión moderna de la Historia, en el sentido de que iríamos caminando por la senda del progreso hacia un casi paraíso material y moral, y en donde lo que habría que hacer es empujar hacia delante el carro de la Historia, para llegar mas pronto. Todo lo que había ocurrido, se ordenaba entonces de manera cronológica, en función del presente y hacia una meta final prestablecida. Se hace necesario que los estudios históricos, los discursos de los dirigentes, los planes académicos de las instituciones educativas, la prensa, etc., incorporen en sus reflexiones las más recientes visiones que se tienen de la Historia. Ya no es posible hacer predicciones, como se intentó hasta hace poco, y lo que nos queda es reconocer las reales posibilidades de la ciudad para apostarle a algunas de ellas. Lo pasado no es ya una secuencia ordenada de eventos.

Y lo que la actual generación debe buscar es aquello que le sea útil para superar los problemas actuales y poder vivir, o sobrevivir. Seguiremos luchando por mejorar las condiciones generales de vida de nuestros conciudadanos, porque es parte de la condición humana, pero no nos dejaremos enceguecer por utopías ni por visiones futuristas, alejadas de nuestra realidad histórica.

El 7 de Abril de 1813 se nos erigió como villa en reconocimiento a nuestro amor por la libertad, esa que soñaron los patriotas de Cartagena y que es hoy quizás lo único que vale la pena preservar para poder apostar a las posibilidades que nos brinda esta ciudad a orillas del Mar Caribe, el mar de la Libertad durante todo el proceso de la Independencia.

Wednesday, April 06, 2005

VALENTINA

This post goes to my former MCP of AIESEC Colombia, Valentina. Actually today is not her B-day, she is also not dead or anything like that, actually there is no special reason for me to write this post, rather than telling her:

1. that you look fine, keep it up! (allthough I have to check you other pics to give a final veredict) - for those who do not know, I used to sort of give her some "fashion consultancy" when we lived together ...

2. handling a weblog is not that difficult - I wrote this post in 5 minutes! So you better start updating regularly your blog - valentinalozano.nomadlife.org

This girl has been living in far far away Australia since two years, one year being part of the MC, and last year being a tainee. Quite unbelivable, since she´s this kind of girls that talks to her mom 15 times a day (her mom is very cool, btw) . Now she is OPEN for options, please if you have an interesting proposal, do not hesitate, she is one of these people that brings value per se ...

I just want to finish with unforgetable quotes of her ... some recent ones, some very old and traditional ones ...

- Eso es vivir, que HP (That´s living/that´s what life is all about, son of a bitch)

- Aqui hay un man que se quiere casar conmigo (There is a guy here that wants to marry me)

- If you try black, you never go black (she was a faci at Afican LDs last march)

- A veces me tenia que quitar de verlo bailar ... me la movia toda (Sometimes I had to go away while he was dancing ... he - well actually I do not know how to translate this, I guess it´s like " he turned me on" but in a very funny way in spanish)

Lover of MEN, ALCOHOL and CIGARRETES, but at the same time of responsibility, world issues and entrepreneurship (what a bombastic combination of interests), ladies and gentlemen, this is Miss (Miss???) Valentina Lozano!