SEND HIM TO HELL!

SEND HIM TO HELL!

This is what I have been willing to say to the lady that lives one floor over my appartment here in Sao Paulo. It´s incredible man, since I live here, I (or we) have been witnesses of how much this woman suffers thanks to the husband.

They are married, have one girl that must be like 10 - 12 years old.
They fight every night and what brakes my heart, is how she cries, how she suffers and how she asks kind of questions like: "why do you do this to me? what have I done wrong to get this from you?" I mean ... this really hurts my woman dignity. She suffers, but atthe same time she is really aggresive, violent, you hardly can´t sleep when they fight.

He has another woman, of course ... that´s the issue. I am not assuming it, I heard very clear all the conversations from my room. And the M***#@# does not even defend himself, his attitude is like "yeah, let me in peace, shut up ...", ah???!!!

I mean, they can be married, but if love is gone ... what to fight for?
If she is not the woman that he dreams of, that he would die for ... why to still be there? What does she expect, if it has been more than 6 months in the same situation? Is it not enough indicator for her to see that she just needs to move forward? Do they think in the child?

Some things I will never understand ...
I just ask God to give me wisedom (and PANTS!) to never, never in my life be as blind as this woman is ...

From some experiences with friends and relatives, it´s really hard to start a divorce, it´s really hard to let someone go, but many times, also for financial reasons ... how sad, but fine! what is more important YOU, YOUR DIGNITY, YOUR SELF STEAM, than just the willingness to stay in a comfort zone, or the fear and lack of courage to start a life alone?

Some things I will never understand ... Latino Women, in many things, we really have a lot to learn from europeans ...

SEND HIM FINALLY TO HELL! AAND GET A BETTER ONE!